Building curiosity is one of the most difficult aspects of seduction. Interest brings about so many other things, like attention, intrigue and curiosity. A girl can simply ignore you if curiosity is not present. Before you can date girls, you must build interest. Remember you’re no more than strangers to each other. Women see you as a guy like all the others. Ladies have the choice whether to reject you or string you along. They can get rid of you and go for other men. But the power shifts in your direction once the women develop interest in you.

How can you start a relationship, if you’re the only one with these feelings of liking? It won’t happen. Luckily, there are some simple tips to building interest. Here I will discuss some of the effective ways.

1. Employ Social Proof

A boring product that you just would not look at would seem like a popular item if a beautiful woman were using it. Dating uses social proof in the same way. If your target sees you hanging out and having fun with interesting people, you will become interesting. After all, you have to be special in your own way if so many people like you. If you know how to use social proof, you can become better at seducing girls.

Take it from Entourage, where the boring guy begins to look famous because he’s connected with a striking guy. It’s what we call the halo result. Some guys are thrust into instant celebrity status because they have the “endorsement” of superstars. How can you relate this? You ought to try to talk to as many pretty ladies as possible whenever you’re out. Make sure to join a lively group discussion.

2. Banter

In the start, things are going well, but the tables could flip if your conversation is boring. You don’t have to ramble on and on to make the conversation interesting. You’re not desperate to impress her. The best conversation is when you act like the host and she’s your guest. You can even say that the more you let the woman talk, the greater fun she will be having in the conversation. You must lead her in conversation, even if you let her do most of the talking.

The key to having a conversation with a woman is to disclose your persona layer by layer. Don’t reveal everything about you in one go. Keep the mystery intact by saying that there are many other facets to your personality that she should find out about.

3. Date

Take the girl out. If she agrees, don’t assume that you’re dating already. The initial date is the extension of your first meeting. You’re continuing the connection in another setting. This is a crucial date because you’ll be able to get her more fascinated with dating you for the long term.